A Wedding Website
Thursday, October 30, 2008
We pretty much knew that wedding website was a 'necessity' for us right from the get-go. Between blogging and email, even our grandmothers have noticed the increase in accessibility due to technology. Since so many of our guests are coming from out of town, we wanted to have somewhere with real time updates and information that they could have anytime of day or night, without calling us up. {Friends, you know I am not good at calling back}
Thus started the grand search for a wedding website!
As I posted before, I have had a Knot account for a while, and their website features have certainly been upgraded!
You get your own domain name, and site for a year for $60. They have some awesome templates, and flashy flash intros, as well as plenty of tools on the inside with RSVPs, guest list management, seating charts, all sorts of stuff...and like I mentioned that price is significantly reduced if you are a Knot member.
This site seems to be pretty good, has a variety of pages, again for f-r-e-e. There are nice little flash intros at the beginning, if you are into that sort of thing, and the designs are pretty cutes-y {and, or, scrapbook-y}. I think that example couple was just a little too much "say cheese" for me. Not that I am not sure that they are really nice people very much in love. [read: models.]
When I stumbled across mywedding.com I was excited because not only are the websites f-r-e-e, BUT they are designed by companies like Papeterie and Wedding Paper Divas to match your invitations. Which we can't afford. Le sigh.
Nonetheless we decided to go with them! (Hey, if i can't afford the actual invites, I might as well have the website!)
They have a great amount of pages that you can turn on and off as you complete them or as they are necessary, instead of having links that direct to a page that says "check back soon" (a la J.Crew as of late. but I digress) and it is a really user friendly interface. And oh yeah, did I mention it is free??
While clearly $70 is relatively cheap for a year, we figured it was semi-unnecessary on a Grad Student / Navy Ensign wedding budget. That could go to some lovely shoes or something for me, or, um, you know, my future husband...I kid, I kid.
In any case, if you are our friend and know our names this should be pretty easy for you, but will hopefully keep some of the online creepers away...
Enter www.mywedding.com/myfirstnameandmyfiance'sfirstname to see our site! Read more...
And the blogosphere is exploding...
Monday, October 27, 2008
with news of the 'Not' Wedding going on in Atlanta on the 16th of November!
These Atlanta area vendors have gotten together to showcase their skills and trades in an actual wedding! The couple is actually already married {hence the 'not'} but everything is being done just like a real one, from the ceremony to the reception, with vendors supplying everything for a modern, dream wedding.
Tickets are $10, and quite a few websites are raffling off VIP packages...check more info at their site and blog.
Anyone want to go??? Read more...
Date-iversary?
Friday was the anniversary of the day we started dating, which, up until this point has always been called our "anniversary"
We started dating in 2000 in high school...when we were really just babies. Look at this picture from graduation:
I got my baby back
Thursday, October 23, 2008
Er, I mean my engagement ring which I value as a symbol of love and commitment entirely, and not in the slightest as a material possession...that is so sparkly...and glimmery...and fabulous.
In any case, it is back on my hand where it belongs afte being taken down to a 5 1/2...which surprisingly is still not that tight, but fits very well.
Save the Date!
Our Save the Dates have arrived!
As I was leaving the house to come to work this morning, imagine my surprise as the DHL man came traipsing up to ME!
"What can this be?" I thought to myself for a quick moment...and then it dawned on me that this little package held 250 postcards - of my own design {!}- much sooner than expected thanks to the lovely customer service at Vista Print.
Yay! More later on why we decided to go with postcards, and the design itself...
As an aside, let me admit to you all that as much as I adore blogging, sometimes I find it a struggle with whether or not I should reveal things on here, or leave them a surprise since I suspect the majority of people who actually read this will be guests. Luckily, more often than not my naturally tendency to have someone with me to jump around and scream and be excited wins out - though now that only happens via comments - but whatevs, you get my drift.So here it is, in writing, the day that we will be getting m-a-r-r-i-e-d!
When, when, when should I send them? In Martha this month it said you can send them up to one year in advance, if your guests are traveling (which a majority of ours are) BUT I feel that may be overzealous? And then I have to factor in them getting lost in the holiday card shuffle...so maybe middle of January? Can I hold onto them that long????
Married friends, planning friends, when did you / do you plan to send yours? Read more...
Confession.
Wednesday, October 22, 2008
So, my mom has this friend...
Who happens to be a photographer, going back to school for a degree in Graphic Design.
I think her photos are pretty good, and now I am torn :\
Take a look (all photo credit to Amanda Matzke)
A risk worth taking? Read more...
I love a lantern...
Monday, October 20, 2008
Ok, remember this picture from our venue?
Well, this furniture is staying and I have been having happy visions of white tablecloths swaying in the breeze on top of them with a fabulous copper lantern as a centerpiece on each one with a candle glimmering inside...
But which fabulous lantern?
I have come across some really great deals at White Barn Gifts:
Not on the Knot
Confession: I have had a Knot account since I was 16.
Am I crazy? I don't think so. It all started with a project for health class in which we had to plan a wedding and life with a partner assigned in class to deal with financial planning, etc.
Clearly, none of the girls, including myself cared about finances. We cared about the dress, the flowers, the shoes, the destination, etc. So, I joined the Knot. (a report has to have pictures, right?)
Through the years I browsed pictures and saved ideas whenever I had some down time and thought about it, but a friend asked me the other day if I had ever updated my Knot webpage since being engaged.
I thoughtfully replied "You know what? I haven't even been on The Knot since getting engaged."
Now, don't get me wrong, the Knot is still a great resource for pictures, ideas, all things wedding...but so many other sites and blogs have exploded all over the place with such unique styles and a much more personal feeling, that I haven't felt the need to really go back.
I did today though, to update our information (just in case a guest stumbles upon something of ours online I want all of the information to align) and realized that they have done some serious upgrades. The most noticeable to me was The Knot website feature. It is is much, much better than the last time I looked. They have integrated many more tools including online RSVPs and Save the Dates to match your website.
While ultimately we have decided to go with another website provider for our primary site, the easy to use tools on The Knot could probably and has, I am sure, helped many brides get a website up and going.
For me it is all about making things easy on our guests, so guests and friends, what is important to have on our website?
with this ring...
Saturday, October 18, 2008
As of yesterday, we have officially picked out our wedding bands. According to my "to do" list, we are a little preemptive on this task, but this was something that was fun for both of us, so we were a little excited to go back to Spencer's Jewelers, who designed my engagement ring.
First up, Austin's ring will look similar to this:
Anywho, it looks kind of like our friend Allen's wedding band (except Allen's is in yellow gold) so that is fun!
Also Spencer's is going to engrave it - for free - on the inside with my first and middle name. Awww. (his idea, not mine...I suggested the ever popular "Put it back on"...just kidding)
My band, on the other hand I do not have a picture of...because it is being semi created for me. I know, I know, I am difficult :)
But it too will be white gold, with 6 raised round diamonds, in an ever so slight curve, so that it nicely accents the shape of my engagement ring. Yay!
When we first went in they had a band that I liked with 5 diamonds, but I thought with 6 diamonds they would fit better around the round center stone on my engagement ring. So, the very nice Mr. and Mrs. Spencer found a setting in a catalog to order for me. They are going to play with the construction a little bit and match up some diamonds that are of the same quality as my ring, and then we will see how it looks!
It was so fun to shop for rings, but while I was there the jeweler and I decided that while my ring fits, it is slightly too big (he thinks I should have a little more resistance putting it on and taking it off than I do).
...so on Monday I am going to have to drop off my ring to have it taken from a 6 down to a 5 1/2. I will be with out it for 4 days. Sad faces. I am going to have to dig through my jewelery box and find a replacement ring for a couple of days so my finger doesn't feel naked!
In any case, I continue to be impressed with the level of customer service at our jeweler! They are so sweet and patient, and willing to work with you to get you exactly what you want. Don't be afraid to ask! Read more...
Purchase!
Friday, October 17, 2008
Hurrah!
Tuesday, October 14, 2008
Per my usual obsessive checking of blogs, I got the happiest news via Weddingbee yesterday!!!
Things that make me happy...
that the light is currently off in my office, but the combination of sunlight shining through the window and the way i was just sitting caused my engagement ring to throw pretty spots of light all over my desk.
Just thought I would share :)
Labor of Love
Monday, October 13, 2008
I saw this picture today by Our Labor of Love Photography in Atlanta, via Style Me Pretty's Pink Week feature:
Monday, Monday, Monday
Happy Monday everyone! and Columbus day for all those who get to celebrate it!
I am secretly blogging here at work since we did not get the day off, unlike Austin who is snuggling with the puppy and probably playing Zelda at home.
Anywho, this weekend was pretty productive for wedding things...yay!
Updates are as follows:
- We have 'decided' on a design for our Save the Dates, Woo! (I use the word decided lightly however, because you all know me and my mind...I will be making up new designs until the payment is made and they have been shipped)
- Austin picked out a wedding band (Just seeing samples on his hand gave me a fabulous mushy gushy feeling inside) a post all about them later when I make a decision...
- I went crazy at Michael's and bought all sorts of fun Navy and Copper things.
- The down payment for Lake Wissota has been MADE. Due to the delay because of the "holiday" today, who knows when it will get there, but contracts and deposits are on their way! Whew.
Breast Cancer Awareness Month
My sorority's national philanthropy is Breast Cancer Awareness and Education, and through that opportunity has become a cause near and dear to my heart.
There are quite a few wedding blogs that have special events and features going on for October! Check them out here:
Style Me Pretty is doing a "Pink Week" this week, showing all sorts of fabulous pink details across many weddings and photographers.
With This Ring has a lovely post about the new Brides Magazine's Something Pink Initiative They are featuring wedding gowns specially designed, with something pink of course, that will benefit the breast Cancer Research Foundation.
Check out this event in Seattle. Love the name "Get Hitched Give Hope"
The Bride's Guide has a post up as well with links and information about different companies getting involved such as Thread, who is offering a 10% discount on orders in October! (a portion of that money will be donated to Breast Cancer Awareness)
but beyond the wedding world...
If you are looking to volunteer or go and support some survivors here is the schedule for the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure events:
I Love Paper.
Thursday, October 9, 2008
It all started in 2000. That's when I joined the yearbook staff.
Since the most fantastic episode of The Causeway to ever come out was published in 2002 (editors myself and my bff Corey) I have pretty much had an obsession with document design.
So when it comes to Save the Dates, Invitations, Menus, Programs, pretty much everything that gets printed, I have been all over the place with ideas.
The bottom line is that there will need to be a lot of information, as most people are traveling...
Now there is the Pocket Fold Invitation which is classic and I have always loved:
Then I stumbled across accordion invitations, which are just so yummy:
There are the booklet invitations of course, and I found the most FUN idea for an insert booklet:
New Look
Sometimes I get bored...maybe this is the reason I can;t seem to make a decision when it comes to anything wedding related?
Commitment to Austin is not the issue, but commitment to colors, locations, flowers, etc. definitely a fear there!
Listen to the music...
Sunday, October 5, 2008
Of all of the lovely cards that we have received to congratulate us on getting married, this one made me laugh the most:
Carnations? Really?
Thursday, October 2, 2008
As I was leafing through the new InStyle Weddings magazine that I recently picked up, they had a whole article on carnations as wedding flowers. When bunched together they supposedly look like peonies...I am not really sure if I think they look like peonies, but they have a great look all their own.
Now, one of my bestest friends Lindsey, used the floral styling of one of my other bestest friends Shelby's mom, for her wedding. Together they artfully designed beautiful centerpieces using carnations last April.
More Drool.
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
So, my fabulous boss from UW-Madison this summer (who had her own fantastically beautiful wedding in Colorado last summer) just sent me the link to this website.
Front Room Photography
They operate out of Milwaukee, and their site mentions nothing about pricing or travel...but they are definitely worth a call.
Drool.
Thanks Sarah!!!
New Additions
I have added some of my favorite Inspiration Blogs, as well as possible vendors for our locations...have fun perusing :)
Read more...